The Greener Grass

Picking your battles

Sometimes and we are all accused of doing this, we interject our opinions when they are not wanted. We all have a tendancy to just open our mouths and allow for verbal diarhia to come spewing forth. Sometimes this can cause fights, and other times hurt peoples feelings. Many times we dont care. But what if you are on the recieving end of that assult? What if, just for one second that was someone talking to you like that? What if what they were saying was really hurting you, and they didnt care?

Sometimes we find our shoes on the other foot. Taking time to really examine your words and what you have said to someone even if you dont agree with that person’s actions, comments, or opinions, one should always take the higher road and keep to themselves. You can talk the ears off of someone, but if they dont want to listen, then you are just wasting your time and breath.

This is where picking your battles comes in. Knowing what to say, and when to say it can turthfully help your cause. If you are suggesting something to someone and they wish not to hear it, in one ear and out the other….
Take some time to just listen, you dont always have to have a say, just listen, and be non-judgmental about things.

Can having too much in common become a problem

Perhaps being with somebody who is like you in every way can become a hindrance in making a relationship work, because of its tendency to impede growth and to foster narcissism in an individual.

Having said this, there might be some truth to the saying that opposites attract. There’s nothing entirely wrong with having the same taste in movies, travel destinations, books and perspectives on life. It’s when things go overboard that this “commonality” starts to become a burden. Here are some examples of how this can be made possible:

What you really want….isn’t always what you need

I have recently been bombarded by callers, mostly women, who have had  a theme going on in all of their calls. They have all been interested in men who are with other people.

Wow is all I have to say. Ladies, if you are seeing a man who is seeing someone else, dont get all possessive of him because he isn’t yours in the first place. If he is cheating on her, he’ll cheat on you too.
Also dont waste your time with doing love spells on one person who you think you love now, why not ask me to do …a spell for you that will bring someone worty of you into your life?